By Vanderly Cillo | Soul Care Practitioner & Certified Neuroscience Coach Why grief is not weakness, needing others is not a victim mentality, and the Body of Christ must learn to make room for suffering There is a particular kind of pain that happens when someone finally finds the courage to say, “I'm struggling. I […]
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Why Does Grief Feel So Lonely? The Neuroscience Behind Loss
By Vanderly Cillo | Soul Care Practitioner & Certified Neuroscience Coach Why does grief feel so lonely, even when you're surrounded by people who love you? You can sit at a table full of people and still feel completely alone. You can laugh one moment and unexpectedly cry the next. You may want people near […]
When We Moralize Pain Instead of Meeting It
By Vanderly Cillo | Soul Care Practitioner & Certified Neuroscience Coach Sometimes the greatest harm doesn’t happen in the moment of trauma. Sometimes it happens afterward, when a wounded person’s pain gets mistaken for rebellion, cries for help get treated like character flaws, and brokenness gets reduced to behavior. When we moralize pain instead of […]
Certified Neuroscience Coach — Spiritual Director — Licensed Minister
Vanderly is a Soul Care Practitioner, Certified Neuroscience Coach, and Licensed Minister who supports individuals in emotional and spiritual growth through faith-based and neuroscience-informed practices.
Professional Disclosure: Vanderly Cillo is an ordained minister and certified coach. She is not a licensed mental health professional in the State of Florida and does not provide psychotherapy, diagnosis, or treatment of mental health disorders. Services are offered as pastoral care, certified neuroscience coaching, and faith-based support for emotional and relational growth and are not a substitute for licensed mental health care.
Professional Disclosure: Vanderly Cillo is an ordained minister and certified coach. She is not a licensed mental health professional in the State of Florida and does not provide psychotherapy, diagnosis, or treatment of mental health disorders. Services are offered as pastoral care, certified neuroscience coaching, and faith-based support for emotional and relational growth and are not a substitute for licensed mental health care.
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