By Vanderly Cillo | Soul Care Practitioner & Certified Neuroscience Coach One of the greatest mistakes we make in personal growth, healing, and even spiritual formation is assuming that every uncomfortable emotion is evidence that something inside us needs fixing. Sometimes it does. But not always. The goal is not to become so regulated that […]
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Winter Into Blossoming Into Freedom
By Vanderly Cillo | Soul Care Practitioner & Certified Neuroscience Coach Reflecting on this last decade… There were long stretches that felt like winter: uncertain, quiet, even disorienting at times. And yet, over and over, I sensed the Lord whispering the same thing: “Just do the next right thing. I have you. I’m holding you […]
God's Passionate Pursuit of Us
By Vanderly Cillo | Soul Care Practitioner & Certified Neuroscience Coach Many people carry an image of God that is quiet, restrained, distant, or emotionally neutral. In this view, God may be loving, but in a calm, almost detached way, as if His affection is polite rather than passionate and personally engaging. Yet when we […]
Guilt Is Not About Badness: It’s About Separation from Love
By Vanderly Cillo | Soul Care Practitioner & Certified Neuroscience Coach One of the most misunderstood aspects of guilt is that people think guilt is primarily about feeling like a bad person. But at its core, guilt is actually a relational emotion. Guilt is the emotional signal that something in a relationship has been disrupted. […]
Certified Neuroscience Coach — Spiritual Director — Licensed Minister
Vanderly is a Soul Care Practitioner, Certified Neuroscience Coach, and Licensed Minister who supports individuals in emotional and spiritual growth through faith-based and neuroscience-informed practices.
Professional Disclosure: Vanderly Cillo is an ordained minister and certified coach. She is not a licensed mental health professional in the State of Florida and does not provide psychotherapy, diagnosis, or treatment of mental health disorders. Services are offered as pastoral care, certified neuroscience coaching, and faith-based support for emotional and relational growth and are not a substitute for licensed mental health care.
Professional Disclosure: Vanderly Cillo is an ordained minister and certified coach. She is not a licensed mental health professional in the State of Florida and does not provide psychotherapy, diagnosis, or treatment of mental health disorders. Services are offered as pastoral care, certified neuroscience coaching, and faith-based support for emotional and relational growth and are not a substitute for licensed mental health care.
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